You refer to a specific player or to all of us? If you someone in particular, please specify the player and what exactly he did to consider it a lack of quality and laziness (using !put to go to spectators might be lame, but certainly it doesn't mean that a member at the same time doesn't do good stuff on the server in terms of administration).
Why, because you say so? Alright, we can discuss about the peculiarities and different meanings of English words, but what's the point? I still think that using !put to go to spectators by a member is not any kind of "command abuse" or "admin abuse". There are other commands, when used improperly, that can be abused and disturb gameplay on the server much more than simply putting yourself to spec that does no harm to anybody on the server - for example, !shuffle, !put for putting someone in another team, !kick, !mute, !ban... You got the idea? Putting yourself to spec by !put command is the least of violations an admin or member can commit.
Not exactly, there are command that serve other purposes, let alone "fun" commands which were pretty popular back in the day.
Again, on what is your opinion based on? Personally, I hardly ever see members using this command to go to spectators, the main usage of this command from my experience is for putting inactive players to spectator. And I've been playing on that server a "little bit" more than you.
And I will not change my opinion about forcefully moving players to another team. This is primarily members' duty to move team if the teams are unbalanced. Besides, we have wolfadmin balancer for that, so really using !put command to move another player should be considered a "last resort" mean to balance the teams. If you've been using !put command for years on your server or wherever you gained so much administration experience (I assume it no longer exists?), to forcefully move players, well then kudos to you. We won't do it because as you can see it's considered among TM community bad and inappropriate towards regular players who come to the server to play a little bit and relax after work on whatever side they like to play.
Why? It's discussion forum, we're meant to discuss here and share our thoughts on certain topics. We wouldn't go far if everybody wrote here with that mindset "I'm gonna complain about something, but anyway I'm not gonna reply after this". Not understandable for me.